Story from the weekend...
(This one comes in three parts)
Friday night: We meet up with Ellie and her mom, Chris, for a girls evening. The girls are playing with their dolls and Chris and I are talking, everyone is having a really nice time. I look over to see Ellie and Ellie painting Ellie F's doll face with french fries dipped in ketchup. "What are you two doing?" Ellie L looks at me and says, "We are making her doll look like Princess P from Super Why." I put 2 and 2 together and realized why they were painting her face. It was a perfect time for a "We are all beautiful and perfect just the way we are" speech.
Saturday afternoon: Ellie and I were driving to the grocery store and without prompting I get, "Mommy, when I was a baby how did I get out of your belly?" After a pregnant (no pun intended) pause and a deep breath I responded with, "Well, girls have special parts that make them girls other than just a vagina and boobs. There are organs inside your body that are special just for babies, it is called a uterus, it is connected to your vagina. That has two holes, one for pee-pee and one that goes to your uterus. Like your lungs hold air, your heart pumps blood, and you belly holds food, your uterus is where babies grow." "When you got big enough my body said it was time for you to come out to my muscles around my tummy started squeezing and pushing you down and out of my uterus, through the baby tunnel, and out of my vagina." Deep breath. "Does that make sense? Did you understand that?" "Yes." "Do you have any other questions?" "No." "Ok."
Monday morning: While we were waiting for the car to warm up a bit Ellie asks, "Mommy, can you tell me about baby vaginas?" "Baby pajamas?" I really thought she said pajamas, remember it was Monday morning! "No, baby vaginas but you can talk about baby pajamas to, if you want." Deep breath, here we go again. "Well, baby pajamas are just like your pajamas only smaller for babies just like baby vaginas. They are just like your vagina, only smaller because they are baby sized. But remember, only girls have vaginas though." "Does that mean that baby boys have baby boy penises?" "Yes it does"
To sum it up: Thanks for the crash course in sex ed and self image Ellie, hopefully now I won't be as caught off guard. And remember, no matter what, please feel free to ask!
Spirit Week at School...
By the way... she is holding her night gown like this to hide her panties and be decent, in case you were wondering.
Go HPU!
It is hard to tell but her pink shirt has oranges stripes too!
She refused to participate because everyone would laugh at her.
Friday... Favorite Color Day!
She was going to dress in a rainbow because that is her favorite color but she didn't make it to school that day, the 24hr stomach bug got to her instead!
It is a good thing she is taking it easy... Earlier on Saturday Ellie and I were in Philly at a party celebrating Sophie's 3rd birthday. Ellie had a fantastic time climbing, sliding, and swinging all over at the gymnasium!
Rule: We have to share a bowl, not have our own.
First Dentist Visit
January 26, 2010
No comments:
Post a Comment